Warning signs of a breakup often slip by unnoticed when we are just not looking for them. This often means complete shock by one partner when the other tries to end the relationship. The list that follows details the top 9 signs that a relationship is in trouble. This article also suggests what you can do about it.
So what are the top 9 warning signs of a breakup that your partner may be signalling by their behaviour? Heres the list: 1. Is you partner suddenly away at strange times and working longer or more irregular hours than they used to, with no real reason behind this change?
2. Have you noticed that they have begun forgetting to do things they always did for you or breaking plans you had both made where as before this would never have been the case?
3. Have they forgotten a date that is special to you both like a birthday,a celebration or an anniversary? This is particularly more serious if they have always been great at remembering up until now.
4. Do they seem uncommunicative, distracted or sulky? Do you suddenly find that it is hard to have a meaningful conversation?
5. (Also one of the most telling warning signs of a break up ) Have the levels of affection and openness in how they show affection changed? Are you getting less hugs and kisses? Have they stopped holding your hand in public?
6. Has your partner become disinterested in your plans or whats happening in your life?
7. Have you detected lies and untruths in your relationship, especially over little things that would not have been an issue before? Do you still trust your partner?
8. Have they become secretive about their email, phone calls or text messages?
9. Outside of the normal misunderstandings that are healthy in a relationship, do you find yourself disagreeing with your partner more and more?
Although one or two of these changes alone may not mean your relationship has a problem, three or more certainly indicate that something is definitely wrong. What do you do once you realise this and want to take steps to save your relationship?
Once you know something is wrong you can take action to fix it if that is what you really want. The highly successful relationships program known as the Magic of Making Up Program can tell you exactly what you must do, to make things right.
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