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Creative Dating Ideas - Lock in a Second Date
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Friday, July 10, 2009 |
I believe that women can, and should, come up with creative dating ideas as well. Because did you know that as a woman, coming up with the great dating ideas can give you many advantages including making the date fun, one of a kind, and as a bonus, it will surely entice HIM to come back for more. Too many times women think it's completely up to their dates to come up with the ideas, and they go along with it, but they just shouldn't.
No, he's not going to come back just to get more creative dating ideas, and steal them so that HE will be creative on his next dates, but he's going to be back for more because when YOU came up with the great ideas (which seems unplanned, we'll talk about that later), the date becomes unique, and naturally it would help the creation of attraction - of course, that's if the communication department agrees.
Now, firstly we should just rule out the widely known big three: movie, dinner and drinks. They are so not special in any way that if your man is quite a ladies man (just pretend that every guy is popular before you actually get him down into a relationship), the date becomes average that the focus is solely making a connection based on the conversation alone. Trust me, it can be done, but you'd rather make it easier on yourself, especially if you are one of those people who get nervous on first dates.
So what are some of the creative dating ideas?
Firstly, choose things that involve some action. I'm talking about bushwalking, rock climbing, or bike riding. Men bond with you better when put in a situation where he gets to do stuff. This is because he would be excited and start associating YOU with his excitement. You can even have 'coffee breaks' to carry out some real convos.
Sure enough I don't expect women to like sport so much - most probably don't, and if you are one of them, then here are some more creative dating ideas that would be a little more doable for you. Try game of pool or if your man actually play sport himself, go and watch him play. That will work well because he will feel so cool in front of you by being able to do something he's good at. You don't even have to actually compliment him with words.
Ok before we go any further, I'd like to give you some more creative dating ideas for use up your sleeve that are even easier to do (In my opinion). This works so well for my friend actually: Imagine that you are a tourist in wherever you are, get a tourist guide book from tourist information centre - yep, getting more creative aren't we? Flip through the pages and find something you can do easily and locally - try not to break your budget and do something that involves scenery. Hey, sometimes you miss all the great spots if you live in a place for too long.
And if you still aren't able to do those, try the theme park. Take advantage of the height adrenaline rush and again, excitement associated with you. But as a rule of thumb though, don't just focus completely on creating the super creative dating ideas for your dates, because you want to be interested in it as well. After all, YOU need to like the idea you are suggesting because a woman who is having a great laugh on the date is definitely more attractive than a woman who is just pretending to like the date. Hey, it's YOUR idea. |
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posted by TINA ALBERT @ 11:30 PM  |
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